Maletas y Muletas: A Year Playing Soccer Abroad

A few summers ago, a friend has posted on their social media that they needed more girls to sign up for their adult soccer summer league. I had been a fan of the game for several years, but it had been a long time since I gave up the sport at the age of eight. I expressed my interest, and they were more than happy to have me on the team. We played about seven games over the course of the summer. Of course, I wasn’t the best player out there, but I was determined and really enjoyed myself while playing.

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The Complete Camino

It’s now been over a month since I finished the Camino and returned back home to the US. What a whirlwind it has been. I spent a month with the same people, waking up, walking, eating, sleeping, doing everything together. Then, suddenly, we were all splitting up and heading off to different corners of the globe. That was definitely a strange experience.

Now that I’ve had some time to begin to normalize back into American life, I’ve decided to take all of my posts from my Camino down from the main page and organize them into one post. I still have all the posts available, but you just have to click the links here or the find the link on the category menu.

Some people told me I inspired them on by walking 500 miles across Spain, others hope to do something similar one day. I hope you enjoy reading about some of my adventures along the Camino. If you have any questions, I am more than willing to answer them.

Enjoy … and Buen Camino!

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I hate goodbyes.

Six years ago, I came to Spain for the first time. It was my first time being out of the country by myself. Many people were unsure how I would do, a month without my parents. I was known for being a homebody. A month came and went, and I knew I had to go back, someway, somehow.

Five year ago, I graduated from college. Most people were applying for internships or jobs, some people got married. Meanwhile, I found a program to teach English in Spain. I was going back to the city that made me fall in love with Spain: Tarragona.

My school was not in the center of Tarragona and it took a little getting used to. But after some time, I loved the school and I loved the students. I came back for a second year. You know how that goes, though.

After my second year, I was going to go to a town near Barcelona, but I didn’t have the right documents and paperwork since I’m a non-EU citizen. For a year, I went back home to the United States.

On my year at home, I worked as a substitute teacher. It was exhausting. I knew I had to get back to Spain. Back when I was in college, one of the teachers had a page with recommendations for what to do post-graduation. I remembered this and decided to apply for a Master’s program in Madrid.

In May 2017, I found out that I was accepted. I was going back to Spain. To Madrid. Now I could see my beloved Real Madrid. Before I left, I was so nervous. Was I making the right decision? I felt guilt at leaving people behind. 

I arrived in Madrid at the end of August 2017, early enough to look for an apartment. Luckily, I speak Spanish, so it was easier for me than most people. In September, I began my Master’s program. During the week, I’d teach at a school. On Fridays, I’d have classes 45 minutes outside the city center in Alcalá de Henares. 

Now, fast forward to June 2019. I finished the Master’s last June, but continued teaching at my school. Today is my last day at the school.

I thought I was going to be fine, but as soon as I walked into the teacher’s room, two of the kindest teachers started talking to me about my last day. And I started crying. I felt like I pulled myself together, but then I went into the gymnasium for an award’s presentation and everyone started looking at me. I started crying again. 

I don’t know how many times I’ve cried today. Each time I walk into the classroom and have to tell the kids it’s my last day, I start to break down. Some of the kids drove me crazy, some of them I love to death. It’s so hard to tell them I won’t be back next year.

I’ve had the students give me cards and posters, write things on the chalkboard about how they’ll miss me. (Also trolling me about the Raptors winning the NBA finals.) Some students started crying, too, making me cry more. I had one girl get up and tell me in English what I meant for the class, which really touched me.

Still, even though I am sad and crying, upset I won’t get to see them anymore, I know it’s my time to go. I want to get a secure and stable job with good pay. There are so many things I miss about the United States. Hopefully, I’ll still continue to travel.

It’s not over for me yet, though. My parents are coming to Madrid this weekend, and we will also travel around southern Spain. Then, I get to see the semi-finals and finals for the Women’s World Cup before setting off a month-long expedition across Spain doing the Camino de Santiago.

So, thank you, Colegio NILE, for giving me a great two years. I am so thankful for my experience here. You guys really have given me another home. Of course, the next time I am in Madrid, I will come to visit! Hasta pronto!

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Bumbling Around Bilbao

Wow. It’s been a long time since I’ve written anything. The truth is, I haven’t had a lot of time to travel and do things. Between working in a concertada, having Masters classes on Friday evenings, and working for an internet company on the weekends, I’ve been grounded to Madrid. But I had to do something. We had a long weekend, or puente, so I chose to go to Bilbao.

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Mi Último Día

Today was my last day in Tarragona. After getting back from Salou at 6:30 and only sleeping for three hours, we had a nice little day. In the morning, I just kind of laid around a little bit. Melanie and I went to lay out by the pool since it was a pretty day outside (but a little cool when a breeze hit). We played a card game with Anna and her friend for a few minutes before just laying out there. We didn’t spend much time out there though because we went to the abuelos‘ house for lunch.

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Time is Running Out

So yesterday after I wrote out my post, I got my paper done! I think I could have done a lot better on it (because I think there is always room for improvement), but with the little amount of time we had to do everything and all the excursions we go on, it had to do. 

After we were done with everything, we went out to the pool and laid out there for a little while. I was brave and got into the pool. It was a lot warmer than it had been when we had our awkward middle school dance moment with Pau’s friends two weeks ago, but it was still a bit nippy. 

As a group yesterday, we learned to make some traditional Spanish tapas. A lot of it was them showing us how to make them. Unfortunately, we ate just tapas for dinner and I wasn’t a big fan of them. We also had to eat them in a plaza area that didn’t have any seating, really, and whenever new food was put on the table, all the kids swarmed the food like flies. So my dinner was basically gelato. Jaja.

After the tapas dinner, we went to a flamenco show. After wandering around the city not really knowing where we were going (yes, including the professors), we arrived at this little Andalusian restaurant. Andalusia is the southern part of Spain, which includes Sevilla, Cordoba, and Granada. It looked like it was going to be a dinky little show, but it was really cool to see them dance. For the Andalusians being a very free people, they dance very seriously with straight faces. I really liked their dresses. I want one!

We didn’t go out anywhere last night because this morning we had to give a presentation for a grade for our Advanced Medical Spanish class. We were supposed to arrive at 9:30, but our teacher never told us where exactly to go so we were just sitting outside the university building for like twenty minutes before our teacher yelled out of the building which classroom we were at. Then, she decided that we were going to go in order of where we were sitting in the classroom, so I had to go last. A lot of the people in my class took fifteen minutes to do their presentation, so by the time I had to go, I had to take quickly and cut out some parts. Ugh. People told me that mine was really good, but I think I could have done better, as always. I hate talking in front of people.

After have a good-bye luncheon (again, tapas) from the university and a toast of champagne, I spent the rest of the day at home and at the playa. I talked a little with Pau and I asked him if a lot of people in Catalonia don’t like Americans because his friend Pol told me he hates the US. He said the people here just see Americans as thinking they are the center of the universe and everyone depends on them for everything, etc. He asked me if Americans thought like that. I mean, I guess they do, but what he said next really just surprised me. He said that one of his friends went to the US and when she said she was from Spain, the first thing they asked was “Do you have cars there?” … what? People are so stupid. I like to think I have a more global outlook on the world. I hope so!

A few of us girls in the trip went to the beach today for the last time (most likely, because it’s supposed to rain tomorrow). It was really hot earlier today, but by the time we got down there, it was a little chillier and it started to get cloudy, so I’m not going to be much tanner.

So right now, I’m just sitting up in the living room with my host parents watcher Ferrer play Tsonga in the French Open semifinals. They are leaving to go to Paris tomorrow morning and they actually get to see the finals! Nadal is already in there, so hopefully it will be an all Spanish final! Later tonight, we’re going to go out with them for a dinner. I’m probably going to cry tonight, and then tomorrow when I have to say goodbye to the kids! Awww … it’s ok. I’m determined to come back next summer!

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Wine and Dancing

I dread writing this blog now because every day that I’m writing about is a day gone from my time here. I can’t believe I only have two and a half more days here. I feel so stupid for not going through with the two week extension! There is so much I haven’t done and I want to hang out with my familia here more. They are so hilarious.

Anyway, we’ll start with Tuesday. On Tuesday for class, we went to another campus of the URV (the university we are studying through). That campus deals more with the sciences and has some laboratories that we used. Lab work is not my favorite. We learned the names of some basic lab materials (some of which I didn’t even know what they were in English), and then we started to put some sample of things on a Petri dish. Boring. We also tested our blood types; however, I already know mine, so it wasn’t very exciting for me. The test was a little hard, too. We had to put our blood on a slide and mix it in with the necessary liquids. Oh well … I’m still O positive!

For our excursion that day, we went to Bodega Torres, which is a winery about 45 minutes away from Tarragona. It was very nice and fancy there. We watched a video about the history of the winery and then we took a tour on a little tram thing around the winery. It was very pretty and there were some cool parts where the tram took us through the buildings. At the end of the tour, we got to sample some wine. We tried Viña Esmeralda, a sweet white wine. It tasted pretty good for wine! I ended up buying some in the store … hopefully it will make it through customs. If not, at least I only paid 7.50 euros for it. One girl spent 140 euros there …. :O

That night was pretty uneventful. I just sat around and worked on the project that we didn’t know we had until Sunday night. Typical. Melanie went shopping, Anna was playing tennis, and Pau went to the castells, leaving me by myself. 🙁 

Yesterday, we had more lab work to do. I’m not even going to bore you with the details. Just know it was boring and pointless and I’m not cut out for lab work. After that, we ate lunch and had an hour and a half to kill before having our group adventure. I only bought one thing, but it was a good thing. Haha. I still have to buy more things for people though!

Our group adventure yesterday was going back to the place where we had team building and we made a music video. It was funny, but I could have honestly done without it. We did the video to the song Danza Kuduro, but surprise(!) only part of the song is in Spanish … the other half of it is in Portuguese. I liked this song before, but I listened to it too many times yesterday. We got divided into groups and we had to make up choreography to a certain part of the song. We got the ending section and one of the girls suggested I do a round-off backhandspring at the end of it. I ended up doing that almost 10 times because the guy making the video wanted to get different shots of it.

Last night was another pretty uneventful night. Dinner was funny, though, as usual. They talked about Russian mafia people who are rich and come to Spain, they were trying to throw cherries into each others’ mouths, and Anna was being dramatic about her cold. Pobrecita … she’s home from school today.

So today so far I just went to a pointless class where I pretty much relearned everything I’ve learned from health sciences at JMU but in Spanish. Now I’m in the middle of working on this final paper for my class. Hopefully I will be done soon so I can go to the beach or do something somewhat fun before our excursion tonight. Sigh … I’m not ready to go home.

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Another Day in Paradise

Today was our final Monday here. It’s getting pretty sad. I just keep thinking about how in a week I’ll just be laying on my couch with nothing to do. 🙁

We are no longer doing any work in the hospital for my class, but today we went on a visit to a school with disabilities. There are also some adults that have been deemed not productive who live there all the time. At first, it was kind of sad because it wasn’t a very pretty place and I felt a little bad for them. But after spending a few hours there, all the people seem very happy. Two of the older people even claim to be novios, or boyfriend and girlfriend. It was cute. At the end, we had to say a little statement about what we thought of the place and after my statement, my teacher told me that I don’t talk a lot but when I do, I’m one of the best speakers and I have a great accent! 🙂

After going to the school and eating lunch at the university, we went to Playa Arrabassada, which is only a few minutes away by walking from our house here in Tarragona. It’s the nicest beach in my opinion and all the students who don’t live near it come to it. I spent about two hours on the beach … gotta get my tan on for when I come back to the US (boo). 

Today’s activity, well it happened at night, was going to a place to make paella. Paella is a traditional dish from Valencia that includes rice, vegetables, chicken, and seafood. It was cool how all of us chipped in within our groups to make the paella. Our group had some good discussions, too, which was good because we were placed with people that we normally don’t hang around much. The paella was tasty, thank god, because that was our dinner for the night. I ate the gambas, which are just giant shrimp, and chicken, but I definitely avoided that calamari. 

I just got back a few minutes ago from that. It’s been a pretty chill day. The family I’m with still hasn’t eaten their dinner, but I will still probably sit down with them because I love talking with them and just hearing them talk. Hopefully we won’t be talking about our departure at all!

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Another Week Gone

Hey everybody! Sorry for another week without posting anything. They really pack our schedules tight here, so by the time the night time comes around, I’m just ready to watch TV and go to sleep.

So last Monday, we went to a beach city a few minutes away from here called Cambrils. Our excursion for the day was riding bikes from there to another beach city called Salou. I don’t know the exact distance we rode, but it felt like I was in the Tour de France. Some people told me it was five miles, others seven miles, seven kilometers, and eighteen kilometers, so who really knows? My bike was kind of small and it wasn’t in the correct gear, so it was so difficult to ride my bike. It was supposed to be a relaxing bike ride along the coast but it was definitely tiring. After that, we had some free time to walk around and buy stuff if we want. I got some gelato (of course), and some souvenirs, including a Fernando Torres Spain jersey for me. J By the time we got back to our house, it was after nine o’clock and we were pretty exhausted.

On Tuesday, we had a free day. Some people went to the mall, but I decided to go back to the house and catch up on some much needed sleep. Tuesday was no disappointment though. Melanie, Elizabeth, and I went with Pau to see the castells, or human towers. It’s pretty much like cheerleading pyramids, but even crazier. There is a base of people, who are supported by a big group of other people, while having about five to six different layers of people climbing on top of them. The craziest part is that the people at the top are children probably under the age of 5.

I didn’t get to take part in that, but I did get to climb on top of someone. Unfortunately, I’m not the best with getting my own body weight up, so I had to step on Pau to help me get up … but I was up there! We might go back this Tuesday. It was just so awesome! Ironically, there were people on our trip who went to see the castells on Tuesday, too, but they went to the rival one. Too bad Pau’s group is better and we got to participate a bit! At the end, we even got to press against people to form the base!

Wednesday’s adventure was a little boring. We went to the port area of Tarragona. After nearly getting lost to get there, we first saw a fish auction. People of the area come to this place and bet on different batches of freshly caught seafood. The price starts high and goes lower and the first person to press in for the fish gets it. Then we went to boat museum, which was honestly very boring. All of us were trying to prevent ourselves from falling asleep. At the end of it though, this guy who was reenacting someone from around the 18th century gave us a shot of this really gross alcohol called Chartreuse. It wasn’t very much, but it definitely cleared my sinuses.

We then had a bit of free time (during which I got a newspaper with Gareth Bale on the front), before heading to the boat. We went on a boat around the port and into the sea a little. The sights were pretty, although some of my friends made a comment that part of the journey looked like Newport News. We ate a little bit on the boat, but it wasn’t my favorite. Unfortunately, too, it’s been pretty cold and windy, but luckily we ate under a roof.

Thursday wasn’t a big joy either. Like I said, it’s been pretty cold for the month of May, like 60s and 70s. The water is still freezing, too. The director of our program has been going to Tarragona since the mid 1980s and said the water is the coldest he’s ever experienced in the entire time he’s been here. Well, after our beach day was cancelled the previous week, it was rescheduled for Thursday. We went to la Playa Larga and we did some water sports. Actually, the only thing I did was ride on a banana boat. It was fun, but it was exhausting. It would have been a lot better if the water didn’t feel like an ice bath.

After that, I decided I didn’t want to go back in the water. I just laid on the beach for a little bit, drying off my swimsuit, but quickly putting on my shorts and my hoodie. It was so cold and it was only 4:30! We stayed there until 10:15. I was pretty miserable the entire time. It wouldn’t have been so bad if it hadn’t been windy, too. We had a barbecue, too, but the food wasn’t spectacular. I was just really happy to get going by 10:15.

On Friday morning, we left for France at 9 AM. It shouldn’t have taken us more than three hours or so, but it ended up taking us almost six! Unfortunately for me, I didn’t stop at the rest stop because I was sleeping and my bladder almost exploded. We stopped in Coullioure, France. It’s a small city just over the border in France, but still in the Catalan region. The area was really pretty. We went around this castle, which had been around since the 13th century and had some stuff to do with Spain and their kings. It was so windy there, though, that a few of us found a room to go into where we ate our lunch and talked.

After that, we went on a mini-train ride up the mountain to see this fort. The train ride was really pretty, too. We drove through a bunch of vineyards. At the top, we stopped to get out and take pictures, but we almost blew off the top of the mountain because it was so windy. I’m pretty sure I got a facelift up there. After the train ride, we had some free time to go around the city because we went to our hotel. We were split up into three different hotels because we are a very large group and everything there was small. I was a little salty because my room didn’t have wi-fi, so I didn’t spend a lot of time in there.

I wasn’t the biggest fan of France. I think another part of it may have been better, but no one spoke English or Spanish, it was very small and claustrophobic, and everything closed there before nine. Unlike in Spain where things aren’t even popping by nine, everything was closed. We had a hard time trying to find a crepe place! After that, a few of us just went to another girl’s room and played card games before going in for a pretty early night.

On Saturday morning, we left France to go back to Spain. We went to Port Llegat, which is where Dalí lived. We could only go into his house in small groups because there wasn’t a lot of space in there, so we spent a lot of time in that pueblo. The house was pretty strange, which is what one would expect with Dalí. We also learned that his wife cheated on him a lot with many different guys and he knew and was ok with it. After this weekend, I don’t think there was something right in his head.

After Dalí’s house, we went to another little beach town called Cadaques. It was pretty there, but there wasn’t a lot to do, especially since it was siesta time. We visited a few tourist shops, but nothing really called out my name. We spent the night in Roses, Spain. The hotel was nice, but once again, the wi-fi only worked in one part of the hotel and there were a lot of older people there. I felt bad for the people who were going there for a vacation and had to deal with almost 50 college-aged students.

Today we went to a Dalí museum. That place was just weird. I don’t really know what inspired Dalí to do all of that artwork. Some of the things were cool, while others things were just plain weird. I tried to take as many pictures as I possibly could, so stayed tuned to Facebook for that. After the museum we ate a really intense lunch. We ate at an Argentine restaurant. We probably had at least five or six courses in our meal. I don’t remember the name of the restaurant, but it was really good! We also had a bit of free time there, so I bought some souvenirs!

Now I am back home in Tarragona. I keep getting a little anxiety and a little sad because I now have less than a week here. I’m not ready to leave my family or this city. I absolutely love it here and I want to come back and spend more time here very very soon!

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